Monday, September 21, 2020

Who Jumped Friday, and Why Was It My Family’s Fate to Witness Such a Horrific End of Life?

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Submitted by Sheri J. Sachs


The San Diego Bay, with its iconic Coronado Bay Bridge, is a treasure for those who are granted the opportunity to enjoy and experience it from land or by water. Now, with the Bay reopened to boating, this scenery takes on new meanings, as we reenter public life with a sincere gratitude for its beauty and grace. On Friday, May 8th, my family of six had the opportunity to enjoy a full day on the water, boating up and down the Bay and into the open waters capturing the many delightful sites always provided by the city of San Diego. It was a beautiful day on the water, intertwined with the visual and inescapable COVID-19 complexities and societal disturbances. While, enjoying the water, I contemplated the hardships of displaced workers who were visible from the Disney cruise ship, Wonder, which continues to be docked, hosting a small number of crew members who are unable to leave the ship, waiting for their next assignment. The empty skies, shores, stores, and restaurants along the water from Tom Ham’s Lighthouse to Seaport Village also tugged at my heart with strings of uneasiness that was in direct combat with the excitement of watching the glorious scenes of submarines coming in and out of the Harbor, and dads teaching their sons to sail.

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As the sun finally broke through the clouds later in the afternoon, our family made a last-minute decision to view the Coronado Bridge and the fleet of Naval ships one more time, so off we went from the open waters at full speed toward our destination. This happenstance decision, landed us to bear witness to another seemingly more calculated decision by a fellow member of our society. As we closely approached the Coronado Bridge, I became interested in the traffic traveling on the bridge. Where could all those folks be traveling, I thought to myself. How unusually, my thoughts wondered, as I questioned the behavior of the couple of cars I noticed were now stopped at the highest point of the bridge – post 19. My eyes were now focused on this seemingly innocent stop in the flow of traffic. How quickly the situation developed from a puzzlement as to why there were a couple of people standing at the edge of the bridge, to an abrupt shifting into screams of horror as a young man threw his body over the barricade. This obvious focused intent ignited by this man’s brain, continued as his body plunged downward with a forceful end of life unacceptable for any innocent onlooker to view.

As the minutes have turned to hours since we witnessed this suicide from the Coronado Bridge, my mental replays and questions have multiplied. Who was the young man who decided to end his life on the afternoon of May 8, 2020? Why, why, why did he do it? Why did this not make the news? Was his decision related to the harsh economic hardships facing many of us due to Covid-19? Did the Harbor Police locate his body? Who was the Good-Samaritan who stopped his car? How did he or she go into action so fast, and how are they coping? What is the history of suicides from the Coronado Bridge? Why did it become my family’s experience to witness another’s mental illness and destruction of a human body and life?

I can only provide answers by the facts I have located through my research. It is too easy to use this bridge as a vehicle for suicide, as more than 400 people have died from leaping off this bridge since it opened in 1969. It is estimated that the Coronado Bridge is used for 13 to 19 suicides per year, and that the anti-suicide spikes that have been installed are not dissuading people from jumping. This bridge will quickly become the number one bridge in the United States used for suicides, as it will surpass the Golden Gate Bridge who is working on completing their suicide net protection system. It is important to note the following studies: 1). A 1978 Seiden study at the Golden Gate Bridge showed that 90 percent of those stopped from jumping did not later die by suicide or other violent means, and 2). A Harvard School of Public Health article reviewing numerous studies showed more broadly that “Nine out of ten people who attempt suicide and survive will not go on to die by suicide at a later date.” It is clear that the city of San Diego must now take action, our fellow community members are facing a growth in psychological trauma to unprecedented levels due to the unfolding consequences of Covid-19. Please, let’s support each other through this crisis and develop a solution to this epidemic of suicides from the Coronado Bay Bridge.

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Sheri J. Sachs
Carlsbad, CA

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Originally from upstate New York, Dani Schwartz has lived in Coronado since 1996. She is thrilled to call Coronado home and raise her two children here. In her free time enjoys hitting the gym, reading, and walking her dog around the “island.”Have news to share? Send tips, story ideas or letters to the editor to: manager@coronadotimes.com
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