Peyton Herlihy stand with great grandmother Phyllis O’Toole-Mather at last year’s Memorial Day. Phyllis’ husband, Ensign Austin Edward O’Toole, died while landing his plane aboard the USS Coral Sea in 1954, leaving behind a widow with five children. Phyllis and her family are regular attendees at Memorial Day services in Coronado, where she has made her home ever since. Photo courtesy of Kel Casey and VFW Post 2422.